Conscious Catholicism

I have this ebayer who won an auction of mine back on the 30th of October. We have written at first she told me that she would send payment (paypal) on the 8th. I didn’t hear from her and didn’t get payment so I wrote her on the 9th. She said she was sorry but that she hadn’t heard from the person who she was bidding for in the first place, she said maybe Monday (today) or Tuesday. She did write me today to say that the person who she was bidding for really really wanted the item (a powerbook docking station) and to please be patient, however, she couldn’t give me a firm date when I would recieve payment. I wrote he back indicating that I’ve been patient and that she had until Wednesday to send payment at which time I would relist the item and send negative feedback on her. She of course wrote me back saying that it wasn’t her “fault” and that if I did leave negative feedback she would do the same indicating I was less than patient. She also pointed out that I had no payment deadline listed in my auction. I haven’t written back but what do you all think. Am I being less than patient with her? The item she won isn’t going anywhere until payment is recieved I just like these things to go quickly and smoothly and why is she bidding for someone else anyway?!!


Born in New York, Educated in the Berkshires, Became an adult in CA and found my Soul in Seattle. I'm a bearish middle aged, happy man who lives w my husbear in the OC.